Five of Attraction Can Make Fall In Love
Aug 10, 2011
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Attraction both physically and psychologically as well as a feeling of comfort, when exposed, or at least when talking to others is often referred to as chemistry. A sense of 'fit' is, too often become the basis of a woman and man relationships romance.
Actually an interest in each other transform into various forms. Jonathan Small, a writer from Los Angeles, United States, trying to divide the 'chemistry' in five forms.
Here are five types of chemistry, as quoted from msn.com. Get to know everything that you could find a true partner.
1. Complementary
Differences between male and female characters can become an attraction itself. Especially if you want to find someone who can complement your weaknesses. "Sometimes someone is looking for others who have very different personalities with him for weaknesses complement each other," says Dr. Fisher.
So, do not be surprised if there are couples that much different in every way it can be lasting relationship. Difference that makes them complement each other and always find it 'curious' with their partner.
2. Comfortable and 'connect'
Have you ever met a man who can finish your sentences or that are so fun to talk to, when only knew. If so, 'welcome' in the comfort zone of a relationship. You do not need to try hard to be 'disconnected' when talking to him and this connection can happen to anyone
"People who feel the chemistry often feel is a unit. When talking to one another, they almost feel like I'm talking to myself," says Harry Reis, Ph.D., professor of psychology at the University of Rochester.
3. Laughing
Humor or absurdity always become the main weapon to attract someone. If you can laugh out loud, without having to think about let alone imaging appearance in front of a man, a sign you already have a very close connection with it.
"Everyone likes to laugh. We are all looking for a partner that can help us have fun," says says Kate Wachs, Ph.D., a psychologist and author of Relationships for Dummies.
In fact, studies show laughing can increase your attractiveness in the presence of a target man and vice versa. For that, make captive as 'activity' must while you're doing approach.
4. Many similarities
In many respects you and he have much in common. As a hobby, birthday, favorite food, or maybe ideals. It's also a tremendous attraction when you are looking for a partner. "We tend to be attracted to people who have similar interests," says Dr. Fisher.
Not only that, the similarities in many ways to make you and he's become easier to make decisions. Activities can be easily enjoyed by both without having to weigh up liking each other.
5. Se xual
This type of chemistry is the most common but often misunderstood one relationship. Helen Fisher, Ph.D., an anthropologist from Rutgers University explains lust is essentially a desire for sexual gratification. Then it will usually disappear after having se x and went back to my routine on the days that followed.
If you do not love the person, then you'll feel just plain do not feel to have him. However, if you fall in love then you will tend possessive and jealous, and often do not realize it.